Over the years in recovery we speak about so many principles but the one that supersedes them all is love. Like they say, Love conquers all.
I was in such bad shape when I attended my first meeting, feeling massive shame and guilt. I needed some serious TLC, but in a very specific way. That type of care was exactly what was given to me. I will say this about that, the kindness and understanding from AAs around the world is exceptional!
I heard a line from a movie the other day where someone was responding to a pledge of protection from another by saying “You don’t even know me” and the response was, “What difference does that make?”
When a stranger comes into AA for the first time, we don’t know them as far as ever having seen them before, but, “WE” do intimately know them in a deeper way.
“WE” of AA have been schooled for years in the universal brokenness of humanity. We have learned, with God’s help and the fellowship, a set of spiritual principles that has enabled us to heal from years of spiritual darkness. At some point, “sometimes quickly sometimes slowly,” we all come into a “knowing” that God’s Love is real. That His Love can be trusted to protect, heal and restore anyone back to their “real” lives. In AA terminology, that would be called “The life beyond your wildest dreams” because that’s exactly what it is.
This is what we offer in AA. A life that would have never been attain without God’s Grace. Offered to us, the broken ones, to accept or reject, in that moment of clarity. This revelation, IF accepted, must be followed by continuing effort. Brought about in recovery, by seeking and working the ancient way of the steps with willingness and perseverance. Through these actions anyone can and will receive the amazing, divine present. Their true life adventure here on earth, and an even better true Love everlasting adventure when we leave.
Don’t believe me?
Just stay.. more will be revealed.
Remember.. it’s a God of your understanding… So from me to you, please stay with us in that clarity and keep on learning, for there is a treasure trove of really good news for you to understand.